Just do it!

Nike says “Just do it.”  They are right.  But how do you “Just do it.” when you are afraid of making mistakes?  The stress can be overwhelming with all the responsibilities you have.  No one seems to understand.  No one seems to care.

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I, too, got stuck in a bit of fear this week.  I run a website development firm.  We also produce software.  The funding that goes into these projects can be staggering.  After all, we are no small ma and pa shop anymore.  I have a staff to feed.  Every decision I make can affect the company including “What’s for lunch?”.   You think I’m over exaggerating.  I may be.  Actually, I know I am.  But when you are a business owner, it’s no longer lunch that’s a concern.  It’s the 10 billion things that can happen relating to that simple lunch.  The productivity can be down for the day after a company lunch.  The morale can stay up, as long as the managers treat the staff fairly.  Or will it cross over to friendships that will eventually turn into an HR issue?  What if someone’s having an office romance and the date didn’t go so well the night before?  Will that affect the energy of the whole office?  So, no.  Lunch is no longer just hanging with the guys and have a beer.

As we are looking to launch a prototype business community site, I see myself (in slow motion) refining my marketing plan over and over again instead of taking the action of “Just do it.”  The marketing plan is simply a distraction, you see.  It’s busy work.  It’s safe to be in the planning stages.  It’s safe to fantasize about success.  Taking the action means I’m putting myself out there.  It means I will be faced with potential rejection.  It means I may have to realize that the product is a big failure.  So, yeah.  It feels much better staying in the safe zone.  I know exactly what I will be getting.  Zero.  Am I happy about it?  Not necessarily.  But I’d feel safe.

So, how do you get out of this vicious cycle?

1.  Stop what you are doing IMMEDIATELY.  In my case, I stopped refining my marketing plan.

2.  Remind yourself what your goal(s) are.  In my case, to launch a business community where we can help one another with business expansion.

3.  Remove the obstacle.  In my case, me.  I’m the one stopping myself from getting what I want.  By the way, this will raise many debates but the obstacle is ALWAYS ourselves.

4.  Know you’re in the space of Abundance and you deserve to have ALL you wish.  In my case, I’ve been wanting an online business resource center for years. Why not now?  I’m ready.  I have a team behind me.  I have business affiliates who will back my project.  I’m definitely ready.

5.  Choose Differently.  In my case, continue to write my marketing plan isn’t exactly getting me anywhere.  The magic is in execution.  So, despite fear and doubt, I choose to take action.  I choose to “Just do it.”

Now, don’t think you have to take a giant step forward to shift your vibration.  Me writing this blog post instead of working on my marketing plan is already shifting my energy.  This minor gesture is HUGE in the energy world.  I’m telling my Higher Self that I’m ready and WILLING.  It’s time to make my dream into reality.  So just do it.  You deserve everything you want in Life, plus more!

You are Whole

YOU are Whole .  Its important for us to remember that we are complete.  FEEL that within you with every fiber of your being. On my daily observation of SELF, I realized that by understanding self , we peel off these layers and the key is to let them go when we understand our truth.  At that time we need to be gentle and kind to self and understand what happened was a lesson , good or bad it is that , A LESSON for us to experience. When you allow self to go through a raw experience , no matter how  painful it maybe , you grow and peel the emotions and frustrations and conditioning that took a life time to build around your SELF .
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Remember this , YOU ARE WHOLE .  We come to this “earth walk” with the whole package complete.   We just have to take our gentle time with opening it and understanding every magic that it holds for us.  How many times have we experienced reading or hearing a word or a comment that goes right to our heart and it shifts our vibration to a higher understanding?  This happens due to the inner knowing of the truth, “our truth “.   I feel that sometimes thinking too much about our purpose , takes us far away from it . LET IT GO.  Trust that YOU are on the right path, if something comes your way , accept it and understand that its there to remind you of who you really are, the way you see it, is the way you are , who you are.
On this earth walk , we have ALL that we need to complete it , searching for something OUTSIDE  that already exist INSIDE us like a beautiful bright light will makes us walk in the dark our whole life.
Take your hand, put it on your heart , FEEL the reason you are here , I promise you the more you connect to SELF , the happier you will become . Follow your own heart ~
Happy Connecting ~
Love & Light ~ afsi

Connection with the Universal Energy- Once again!

Afsi asked me tonight “Why haven’t you been sharing your thoughts lately on the site?”. My easy brush- off answer was “Got busy with our business.” My second excuse was “I’m having a hard time traveling in and out of this 3rd Dimensional world.” The Truth is that I’ve been neglecting what’s important- the grounding force in my life– my connection to Mother Earth, my connection with the Universal energy that has brought me so much joy, and my connection with you all. I simply had a moment (a year long moment- but who’s counting) of clouded judgement that 3rd Dimensional tasks are more important than my heart, body and soul.

Pushing off Spiritual commitment seems to be so easy when there’s a long to-do list each day! I have, after all, been communicating with the Universe every day in my own way- lighting a candle, saying a prayer. But I’ve forgotten I signed up to be here serving the World in this lifetime through information sharing and communications.

I have to be honest and say that I have been feeling very unsettled lately. There is this nagging uneasy and unfulfilled feeling running through me. I thought I was just stressed out. I thought I was just fully back living in the 3rd Dimensional life. However, Afsi’s question reminded me that we feel this way when we are not walking our Path. As I write this blog post sharing my experiences, the uneasy feeling is lifting right out of me. A sense of freedom washes over me. I feel calm, happy and psychic again.

I rely on good friends like Afsi to remind me what’s important in life. Not a growing business. Not a staff I need to worry about. All that will sort itself out when I’m grounded, as the leader of our company. I am the force of this organization. and I choose to trust that I’m backed by Infinity. All great things will follow when I’m in a good place. Therefore, I’m back on my Path after taking the scenic route. It was beautiful but nothing beats Freedom and Joy!


Black Tourmaline

I was guided to use Black Tourmaline this year in my healing practice and I love it. Black tourmaline is full of  beautiful grounding energy and it feels nice to hold it in your hand.


Black Tourmaline is used to remove negative energy from your body and your environment. It is believed that this magical stone can help you remove past life experiences from your body’s cell memory. Use this powerful stone to remove unwanted habits, such as smoking, anxiety, emotional eating, depression and so on. IF you no longer want to be connected to a particular negative emotion, use Black Tourmaline to help you in this process.

This powerful stone is helpful when you feel things get out of control, use it to bring balance to the right and left side of your brain, to help you remove the negative thought pattern and bring in the positive way of looking at things. It helps clear things in your life. Its is also a LUCKY stone to have with you.

You can wear Black Tourmaline Jewelry, or just keep the stone in your pocket or place them around your house. It is said that keeping a piece of black stone under your pillow helps you have a peaceful sleep.

Black stone comes in many forms such as pyramid, sphere, rough or polished small or large pieces, wand, and in many forms of jewelry.

Look into this beautiful stone and try it for yourself and see how it helps you with your healing process.

Enjoy connecting to Black Tourmaline ~
Love & Light

Releasing and Letting Go

Releasing and Letting Go

In life, there comes a time when we have to let go and accept what is in front of us on our life path. Letting go is not easy, but it is a BIG part of our journey. When we simply let go, we release the energy that is connected to that hurt, and free ourselves of the weight of it. The key is to be gentle with the self, and know that it will get better. Know that change is the only way to heal and grow. As we get older and become more of who we really are, it gets harder to accept what is not our truth and our reality, the energy does not resonate with us anymore, and the only way to fix it is to let it go and not fight it.

Releasing and Letting Go

Sometimes the fear is there and it keeps us from moving forward, but trust that you are guided to make that move and just take a step forward. It takes courage to put yourself in that situation, but once you make that move the universe will guide and support you.

Always say what is in your heart – it gives you power. Live by your truth and make your life simple. Let go of things that complicate your life. Remember, you can never make everyone happy, and no matter how hard you try, not everyone will love you. So why not be yourself? Live your truth and speak your truth, and at the end of the day, you will be happy with who you are and what you live by.

The good news is at the end things will work out, once you let go of what is holding you back. There is so much that you need to experience and feel. Keep your smile on and your passion for life, and never stop moving forward.

Happy Releasing and letting go ~
love & light ~